Today, baby 1 came in having slept only 6 hrs in the last 36. Not cool. She took her morning two hour nap for me as usual and would've slept longer, but I had to wake her for a feeding. This afternoon however, she slept 45 minutes and was then awakened by baby 2's fussiness. She was obviously still tired, but I tried for 45 more minutes to put her back to sleep but to no avail. She was up. So our afternoon two hour nap turned into a mini 45 minute cat nap. Boo.
If baby 1 wasn't sleeping well, do you really think she was going to take her bottle well? Ahh, you catch on quick! I had to resort to using the medicine dropper which I have not had to do since the very first week. It was an hour long tedious process of getting her to take it all, but she ate about 3 1/2 oz. Hard to tell with spilling some, and her spitting some out, but oh well.
Baby 2, after playing on the floor, was looking sleepy, rubbing his eyes (so cute!) so I swaddled him up and laid him in his bed. Baby 1 began to look sleepy too. Swaddled her up and did the same. I am working on getting them to put themselves to sleep. So, I lay them down while sleepy, but still awake. If they cry, I check on them every two minutes and reassure them that I am still there, but do not pick them up. Baby 2 is pretty good at it. Baby 1 is decent, but she still takes a few checks. This afternoon I decided to let her go longer than 2 minutes...at 3 minutes and thirty seconds, she had stopped crying. Sigh...it's been 20 minutes of peaceful silence, although it really feels much longer. Here's hoping for a good 2 hour nap to replace the earlier one. Do you know, that at 3-4 months of age, they are only supposed to be awake for 1-2 hrs at a time and then sleep about 16 hrs a day?? Crazy. Anyway, I do my best to keep within those time constraints. I know they need that sleep to rest and grow and develop.
Two babies is certainly more challenging than one and they are so unpredictable sometimes. I'm hoping I continue to get better at it and that they do too :-) The stress and frustration I experience when I can't get them to stop crying is so minor compared to what I experienced at my previous jobs. This still beats working for someone else, any day.
In brighter news, last friday I had the babies make their first craft! Foot print snowmen! Love them.

The peaceful sleep lasted a total of 30 minutes. Then they both woke up. Sigh. Help.
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